We have a lot of work ahead of us. A lot. On his end and on my end. But you know what? I’m finally reaching a point where I’m committed to putting in the effort to make this whole thing happen for us. I know we can get there. Slower than I had hoped but we will get there.
Sunday morning I set out to ride with four homework items in mind:
- Lower my hands and soften quicker when he responds
- Slow my post
- Have a distinct plan and refuse to let him dictate the ride
- Work on true bend through a circle by leg yielding him out while capturing him with my outside rein.
By the end of the hour I could easily check off every single item and felt like I was walking on cloud 9.
Was it easy? Nope.
Was it perfect? Nope.
Did it feel amazing to start with a hot tense mess and end with a slow, relaxed and supple trot through multiple different exercises? Heck yeah it did!
I was proud of myself for being able to apply what she taught me at home alone. He came out ready for a fight. He was an angry, head tossing and tail swishing Appy. We spent a long time at the walk working on the above checklist.
Keep point # 3 in mind I set up two different exercises with ground poles leaving space in the middle for additional work. This way, I always had something to focus on while not drilling the same thing over and over again.
Exercise 1 was two poles set up to create a circle. I worked on this at the lesson and really liked it because it forced me to continue on the same path and focus on the bend. This is where she taught me to really use a leg yield to push him out but making sure I capture him in my outside rein to prevent him trotting or cantering off. It’s hard work for both of us and we were both pretty tired at the end but by golly did he give me some truly wonderfully balanced and bent circles.
Exercise 2 was a set of trot poles along the long side. Apparently trot poles no longer bother him. For me this is a great exercise to work on straightness after all the bending and using a proper half halt to keep him balanced and rhythmic over the poles.
Exercise 3 was performing a larger circle between the other exercises. This gave me a chance to work on bend and pace while having to control the circle without the benefit of the placement poles and still having visible boundaries.
The three all worked on similar things but were just different enough. I really really enjoyed it.
For the entire ride I bounced back and forth between all the exercises and both directions giving a lot of walk breaks and pats for being a good boy. I also rewarded his work by allowing him to work at large once we had achieved what I wanted through that circuit. So I’d work on the circle over the poles and once I felt he was giving me the slightest bit of what I was asking, I’d let him go straight and we would meander around the arena at large for a while. Not only did he get to take a break from the hard work, but it also kept him moving and working in some fashion. He has this habit of thinking all breaks equals finished for the day and will come back to work really angry and tense. By giving him “breaks” from he hard work by walking or trotting at large and then returning to a new exercise to work again, he kept his head int he game for the entire hour.
At the very end I added a new exercise: go straight over one of the circle poles and continue being straight until the fence, turn right, go around and hit the other pole, stay straight until the fence, turn left etc…
Once he was doing that without any opinions on his end, I called it a day.
We didn’t get to the canter but right now I don’t care. A relaxed and slow trot with him out of my hands is my first goal. Once we get that down better I’ll carry that into the canter.
It’s good to feel like we actually accomplished something together and that I dictated the entire ride without letting him bait me or bully me into straying from my path.
18 thoughts on “Taking Charge”
What a fantastic ride with lots of exercise options to keep both of you focused! I think I will put a couple of these ideas to use tomorrow afternoon with Grif.
It worked well for both of us to have different ways to work on the same thing and bop around them all. It was a massive struggle in the beginning but by the end he was a lot better.
I’m in much the same loop right now – but getting there slowly is still getting there. Don’t let anyone take that from you!!!
Exactly! Slow is still better than none.
Sounds wonderful! What a great ride!
It didn’t start out that great but by the end we were on a much better path
I’m so glad this ride was better! Those exercises sound great to work on – the two poles making a circle is one of my favorites. Way to go! And way to go H’Appy for being a good boy in the end 😀
He put his big boy pants on. Or just got defeated enough to quit being a jerk. I really like the circle over straight poles. My brain got fried a bit figuring it out but after we got it it was really fun
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Nicely done! So much progress!!
Step by step
Great job, he’s looking so good!
He looks grumpy in every picture but I swear in real life he is a total goof ball, attention hog with ears forward and happy all the time. When the camera comes out he looks so pathetic
That is so great! I bet if you keep on this path, you will have less and less time at the start where he is tense/angry! And totally jealous of the shiny horse! Mine looks like a moth eaten yak!
That’s how he looked last year and it was so gross. He still isn’t where I’d like him to be but getting closer.
Somedays we just don’t get to the canter and it’s absolutely ok just like you said. Despite her being honestly terrible to you in the lesson it sounds like you did gain some good takeaways from it.
It’s a shame because I am riding with more confidence and conviction after a single ride with her but man I wanted to punch her in the face during it
I know you’ve had a couple blips this spring but from where I sit it’s been AWESOME to watch you get into the groove with Happy!! Also I love that ground pole circle exercise, but it’s deceptively tricky! I actually like to set mine so that the mid point of the two poles are closer to 30m apart.
Yeah I definitely put them way too close together. It was a bit cramped to make the circle happen over the poles