Tuesday night I rode again and added jumps back in as a reward for all the hard work he has been putting in on the flat. My motivation has started to sky rocket now that I have some new tools to play with, specific items to fix and day light to ride in.

I expected a few shenanigans, some banshee style screaming and a bit of distraction due to moving the horses out to the field across the driveway that morning. He doesn’t generally like working when he can’t see them.
But you know what I got instead? This:

Huh.
We walked to the arena with nary a protest. He lined up to the mounting block without trying to eat me. I mounted and he stayed chill while I adjusted myself.
Huh.
He walked on calmly yet forward and swinging through his back. He thought about calling out but shut up on his own and got to work.
Huh.
We worked on the concept of leg yielding out on the circle while capturing with my outside rein. He didn’t protest, fling his head or break to the trot.
Huh.
when I did ask for the trot it was rhythmic and slow. I kept my own posting slow and kept my hands down. I didn’t catch myself raising them to my chin one time. He changed direction smoothly when asked and kept steady without a fight. No drama. He never once leaned on my hands. No rooting. No curling his chin to his chest.
Huh.
I pointed him at the first jump which I had raised a hole higher than I’ve ever set them. He thought briefly about lurching towards it, but a very slight squeeze with my outside rein held him in check and he popped over easy peasy. On the back side he asked to canter but listened politely when I said no, we are trotting. It felt like a true conversation instead of an argument. It felt magical.

Huh.
I pointed him to the next jump and he barely even attempted to jump. He mostly stepped over it. We then did the bending line to the other one and he jumped it and I let him canter back to the first which he then jumped.
Huh.
I asked for a few more times over both but it was such a non issue that I moved on and asked for the canter. The canter has always been flat, racy and leaning into the turns like a motorcycle. A little wild. This time he stepped up into the canter without angry ears or a tense jaw and we slowly and politely cantered around in a sedate manner.
Huh.
I let him trot again and then walk. Then we halted and I sat there on him with an idiots grin plastered across my face.
This. This is the horse I bought. This is the horse I kept saying was in there. This horse is fun and gives me wings. Those jumps were nothing to him. I wanted to raise them. Me. Scaredy cat me. Wanted. To. Raise. The. Jumps.
Huh.

I didn’t though. Instead I got off and gave him a lot of praise. Sure he needs more than a 20 minute ride to lose weight and gain fitness but not Tuesday. Tuesday he needed rewarded for being the best good boy. He needed to know that by not fighting, by not flipping me and my aides the bird he could be done sooner.
I’ll ride again tonight and plan to extend it even if he is being awesome. He does need to actually work too. I’ll definitely be needing lessons ASAP if he continues like this because I’ll soon run out of ideas on my own and I’ll need to stay slightly ahead of him to stave off boredom. When H’Appy is bored he will find something to entertain himself. It’s never what I would pick.
Yay! His brain rolled back into his ears. Welcome to owning an appy! He’s decided it’s much better to be your partner than your nemesis.
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It’s a good feeling and hard fought to get there. I have a feeling it will take some reminders from time to time but I swear he is going to be amazing some day
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Absolutely to both! 😊
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Consistency for the win! What a good boy. Love that he puts a smile on your face, gives you tons of confidence, and makes you want to raise the jumps! ❤
FWIW, I love pinterest for exercises. I have oodles of ground pole, jumping, and flat work exercises pinned on there to keep me busy. It would be a great option for giving you lots of options to help you build fitness leading up to a more steady lesson regiment.
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Ooh….I’ll have to look on Pinterest. The 101 jumping book is filled with ground pole exercises and I need to pull that back out as well
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Yessssss ❤ I love that feeling when they just up and do the things, Happy sounds like such a professional sometimes!!
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I felt a bit confused. Like….where is the fight? Now what do I do? Oh yeah…ride and enjoy it!
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YAY!! so happy to hear things are going well!!!
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Getter better all the time
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Yessss!!!
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😃
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Yay for consistency and expectations!
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Yes to both. Now to continue forward!
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It is wonderful to read this! Your persistence is paying off! ❤
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I told him that he may be stubborn but I’m way way worse
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So happy to read this! I’m guess he thrives on consistency, of any type. So even a semi regular 3x a week as often as possible is enough for him to start retaining that, hey, you sort of are going to keep him working and complying is easy. Plus all of this work stuff is just becoming habit. Anyway, I’m so happy you’re seeing the horse you bought!
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3 days seems to work for him right now. It would be nice to ride more but it won’t happen with my life.
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It’s amazing how some consistency makes a difference! Glad you had a great ride – it will give you more incentive to ride more often and keep it going.
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Results are good motivators!
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D’awwww yay!! ❤ ❤ ❤
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Like the Grinch, my heart grew 3 sizes after that ride
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I swear consistency is the best thing for some horses. So glad he is being the best boy!
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Consistency is probably best for most horses. I could get away with long breaks with Gem towards the end but she always did better with more work as well. Now to figure out how to add more time to my day
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Maybe you both get Seasonal Affective Disorder lol
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Perhaps we do. Next winter will be interesting to gauge it. This year we were both coming back from all that time off from his hoof injury and are very new to each other.
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Woot woot!
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😃
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The Equisense app is great for exercise ideas!
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Ill have to look into that. Thanks for the tip!
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Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! I love love love this!
When you’re ready – grids! You’ll be amazed at how high you can both start jumping with good gridwork. And it is absolutely unbelievable for balance and fitness.
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I have some serious PTSD from Gem and grids but you are right they are the next step.
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Eeeeek, I am so happy for you. Reading this made my day!
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It was such a lovely ride
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