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NaBloPoMo Day 10: How My Family and Friends Feel About My Riding

Oh..interesting prompt.

Hubby

In general, the hubby is very supportive and understands my need for an outlet from work and home life. he is an ultra runner, so he understands the need for conditioning and training that is involved. I think he understood endurance a lot more than this new jumping/eventing thing. He could relate to the love of the trail, the speed and the distance. He supported me being gone all day out on trail and tagged along to the hunter paces I used for conditioning. He was present for my 100 as well.

This new discipline bores the crap out of him and I get that. I mean, we arrive 4 hours too early for my class, he stands around trying to entertain a toddler when there is nothing present to do it with, and then he watches me go for 2 minutes. Plus I’m kind of a nervous bitch the entire time.

The money suck gets to him every once in a while. Lessons, shows, tack, gear. It all adds up on top of the every day maintenance costs of owning a horse. But he gets it and doesn’t complain. Mostly because he knows how cheaply I do this and that it could be a lot worse.

Parents

They don’t get it. They aren’t animal people. They aren’t horse people. They love living in the suburbs close to everything and have no ability to understand my need to be on land in the country. They try though. If I ask for a specific horse item for a gift, they try their hardest to get it even though they have no clue what they are buying. Mom and dad even came to my CT in June and stood around waiting to watch me go. It made the entire day.

Friends

Pretty much all my friends are horse friends. Moving to a new state as an adult made making friends pretty rough. The only way I met people was through riding, so that is who I am surrounded by right now. All my friends think my riding is great 🙂

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NaBloPoMo Day 9: Any Injuries Sustained While Riding

Ok…be prepared for a very boring entry. Ready? Here we go:

None.

 

I’ve fallen off Her Royal Highness more times than I can count. Most of those times I have landed on my feet. There have been two times I can recall my head lightly bumping the ground resulting in getting a new helmet and one time where I bruised my butt pretty badly. Thankfully though with all the tumbles I have taken I’ve been able to get back on and continue riding. This is really important since the majority of my “emergency dismounts” have occurred out on the trail far from the trailer. It would have been bad indeed if something more serious had occurred.

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Since we are on the topic though, I’d like to take a bit to discuss riding safety beyond the typical “wear a helmet” conversation. (Seriously, though. Wear your helmet.)

I ride alone most of the time. Not because I am that antisocial, but because I like to ride at the butt crack of dawn or late at night and normal people seem to want to ride at a more cozy time such as 10 am or 2 pm. Go figure. My background is in trail riding including endurance and hunter paces, both of which occur at speed over varied terrain, and that meant that I needed to condition along the same lines.

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When out on the trail alone, especially on days I wanted to get 20+ miles in, there were some key things that I always made sure I did to make it as safe as possible:

  • Wear my helmet
  • Make sure all my tack fit Gem appropriately and was in good functioning condition
  • Have my cell phone on and charged
  • Have a “grounds person” aka Dusty around or if he isn’t able to be present then create a plan and stick to it. If I can’t stick to it, then update him via text

The first three are self explanatory, but the last I feel is very important and very often ignored. Just like a lot of cross country places required a grounds person for you to jump, when I went out alone on the trail I always tried to make it at a time Dusty and Wyatt could come and either hike or play in a creek/mud pit while I rode. This way, even if I was 10 miles from the trailer, if I got hurt (and remained conscious) I could have texted or called him and he would have been with me in a few minutes. While I never needed to take advantage of that, it made me feel much more comfortable knowing he was at the trail head.

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One time I was riding a new system and got horribly lost. Gem and I were 15 miles into the ride and turning around was possible, but would have put us at 30 miles without food or water and that idea made me a bit sick. Thankfully Dusty was there hiking with Wyatt and the dogs and when I hit a service road, I called him and he looked at the large trail map (the paper version I had with me was awful) at the trail head and was able to talk me to an access road which he drove down to meet me.

I know this isn’t always possible to have someone waiting for you to finish. In that case, I always pre planned my ride. I then told Dusty which trails I planned to take in which direction (red going clockwise to green then back to red going counter clockwise etc…), the length I was planning on, and the time frame I hoped to finish in. I then texted him once mounted so he would know I was off and going.

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I’ve read so many complaints about how this isn’t practical because the trails are sometimes blocked or you change you mind or your horse isn’t up for it so you go a different route. All lame excuses for sure. I mean, we all have cell phones, right? It takes 15 seconds to send a text saying “not feeling it, changed from green to yellow” or “trail blocked have to re route to blue”. Sure your person may not be sitting on pins and needles to read it, but if you fail to return in a reasonable amount of time, at least they have a clue where to look for you.

I’m new to the entire arena based riding, but I’ve still kept a lot of my paranoia with me. I don’t ride at home when nobody else is around. I take Dusty with me when I ride at the barn outside of a lesson.  I no longer feel the need to text him my every move, but I do make sure he knows what my plans are even when I’m going to a lesson or out with a friend. I feel safer knowing that if something were to happen at least he would know where I was and when to start worrying.

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NaBloPoMo Day 8: About the Barn I Ride At

Most of my day to day rides occur at home in my front pasture. We rent a small farmette and have access to one pasture with potential riding in the hay field however the guy who maintains it doesn’t really and it is way too overgrown to safely ride in. Plus it is a 5 acre open field without any fencing and borders a busy road. I can only imagine the nightmare that could occur if I fell off and Gem ran into the road. No thanks!

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My riding space. Typically Pete is following us around and getting in the way, but Gem is relaxed and happy to work in the pasture and we have made some really great progress in our home rides of late.  No lights means no rides now that we entered the dark months, so I need to figure out something.

Trainer’s barn is more exciting to write about and that is where I get the real work done. The barn is actually property of the city as part of the rec program (along with several water parks and trail systems). Before Trainer came along to lease it, the facility was sitting empty and quickly going to disrepair. Now Trainer is there and leases out the barn for boarding and runs her lessons. The fact that the rec department owns it means that the place is public and anyone can ride there during the posted open hours. I take advantage of this to go up and ride on the weekends a couple of times a month to get work in a real arena. It is really nice to have that option.

Media is always preferred over lengthy words, so lets take a picture tour!

There are three arenas (though I only have picture of two as the third was built specifically for warm up and we never use it in lessons) with the main arena having stadium lights.

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The dressage arena (ignore that it is under water, it isn’t typically like that). It is a full size legal court with letters and all. Not sure what the footing is, but Trainer would love to get it changes out. Guess how badly the city wants to??
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A look through the barn aisle door. I don’t have a picture of the barn since I don’t use it, but it has around 20+ stalls, two wash racks with hot and cold water, three tack rooms (Trainers personal one, the boarders one and the lesson program one), the office and a bathroom.
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Another look at the dressage court on a dry day
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The jump arena. This one has the stadium lights, bleachers and a gazebo fro the judge when it is show time. The jumps are permanently set up and usually are set to some insanely tall height.
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Like so. Who jumps that high?

Beyond the arenas and barn are the pastures and woods with trails. I haven’t ridden the trails yet, but I think it is a bout 2 miles or so. Trainer has used the space well to include a variety of solid obstacles to play around with. Her most devious plan was adding coops to the pasture fence line so that once you jump into it, you have to jump back out over the coop. It helped scared little ole’ me because I was stuck and had to do it.

And that is about it. It is a really great barn and I am so glad I found it. I’m not sure what the future will be if we ever move as it will likely double the time to get there, but thankfully Trainer will travel to me too so lessons can continue.

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NaBloPoMo Day 7: Favorite Ribbon Won at a Show and Why

Over all my years riding, I have won 7 ribbons I believe. Endurance isn’t big into the ribbon scene. When you complete a ride they give you a hat or a water bucket or a bag or a flashlight or a t shirt or a ride photo. Pretty much anything but a ribbon. Not including those non ribbon awards, I can think of two that really stand out: my year end hunter pace 6th place ribbon for 2015-2016 season and the 4th place I got at my first CT this past June.

Of those, I think the hunter pace award is my favorite.

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Crappy photo, but its the best I have since I no longer have the ribbon. I told you I throw them away. 

What makes this 6th place ribbon mean so much is the work that went into getting it. The 2015-2016 Hunter Pace season had rides scheduled every other week from August to May with a two week break for the holidays. That was a lot of rides to attend. Compare that to this season where several rides have bailed out and I believe there are 6 fewer  rides on the schedule than in 2015.

Each ride is based on the secret optimum time and I was really stoked to get in the top 5 multiple times. Finishing the ride gets you 2 points, but top 5 gets extra points that really help boost you in the rankings. I had hoped to make it to every single ride that season and win the coveted framed professional photograph, but I missed the last three due to timing with the Biltmore 100 mile endurance race I did that May.

In fact, I didn’t even bother going to the year end gathering (I believe it was at Biltmore that year, but i could be wrong) because I figured I was out of the running by that point. Low and behold I found out I placed 6th out of over 150 riders!!! I was so excited!!!

So many weekends were dedicated to hunter paces, so much effort went in to trying to maintain a good pace and make that elusive time and a lot of arguments on pacing occurred out on those trails. Wyatt was a ride camp staple that year with his dump trucks and diggers playing in the mud and arenas. It was a fun season and one I hope to repeat again someday hopefully with a built in little trail buddy on his Wyatt sized pony. Maybe next season?

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NaBloPoMo Day 6: Favorite Tack and Riding Clothes I Own

Tack hoarder I am not. I own one bridle, one saddle pad for schooling, one for shows, and two low end but functional saddles. On my part I own two pairs of schooling tights and one pair for showing. My tall boots are synthetic and my paddock boots I bought on consignment for $15.

I grabbed this bridle off FB for $20

I’m not really sure I have a favorite of anything. My stuff is functional and safe.

For breeches I tend towards tights instead of real ones due to fit. After spending hours trying on different breeches only to find that none fit me in all the places, I gravitated towards tights and haven’t looked back. My brand of choice is Irideon. My issential tights have taken the abuse of all my conditioning plus competition miles over 5 years and still look brand new. You can’t beat that for longevity.

Issential riding tights in black, Just Chaps in black mesh and $15 no name paddock boots

I tend to ride in whatever shirt I feel like putting on and none are riding specific.

My saddles are both Thorowgood T8, part synthetic and part leather. They fit Gem well and take the abuse I throw at them. It’s not like I don’t want a better saddle, but Gem is 19 and insanely hard to fit. I don’t see the point in buying anything more expensive at this point in our lives since what I have fits her well.

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Thorowgood T8 dressage saddle. Ignore the pissed off mare.

Um, that’s about it. I do adore all my endurance gear which took me several years to perfect, but that is all now sitting in storage.

Oh wait! I do love my cross country vest. It’s an Airowear Mesh vest. That reminds me. I need to do my review of that.

Love this vest. Will do a review ASAP
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NaBloPoMo Day 5: Your First Fall

This flows perfectly from yesterday’s post. Over all the years, miles and reckless galloping over hill and dale with my Aunt and Uncle I never fell off. Not one single time in over 5,000 miles of riding out in the world. Amazing really and a testament to the horses the purchased for me to ride.

The came Gemmie. Oh Gemmie. I can’t recall the exact first fall I had. There have been so very many with her. Getting dumped was nearly a daily occurrence in the beginning. Hell, I fell off during the 30 mile Ride and Tie Championships last fall.

While I can’t remember the first one, mostly because it wasn’t very memorable likely occurring in the indoor arena in OH during a regular evening trying to ride her, I can remember quite a few of the ones that followed.

There was the time the “trainer” at the training barn I had Gem at was teaching me a lesson with jumps included (why she thought a rider/horse team who couldn’t even walk safely was cleared to jump I will never know) and kept jacking up the jump every time we cleared it and circled to come again. The last time it was made into a wide oxer at 3’ and since I wasn’t such a wimp back then I tried it. And was lawn darted to the other side.

My first LD, I was adopted by a group of three women who were very experienced. Gem and I did pretty well and hung in with them throughout. In fact, we ended up finishing 8th. At mile 21 Gem waited while I posted up (too high and with questionable balance at this point in the ride) and took the opportunity to duck down and to the right. I landed on my feet on the ground.

My first 50. I was nervous and the start sucked. We began on a paved driveway covered in loose gravel with a 15% downhill grade that last 100 yards and ended in a 90 degree left turn onto single track in the woods. The ride manager stood at the turn in bright yellow and a flag in her hand to make sure everyone made the turn. Sounds like the perfect recipe for disaster. Gem was in fire breathing dragon mode and I was so scared she was going to take off down the hill and slip and fall. She kept it to a dull roar until she saw the flapping woman at the bottom and vaporized, reappearing about 50 feet away. I went flying off. Thankfully I wasn’t hurt beyond my pride having fallen off 100 yards from the start.

It’s been a wild ride, that’s for sure!

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NaBloPoMo Day 4: A Ride That Impacted Your Life

January 2010. Gem has settled into the barn and has had a week to adjust to knowing me. I hadn’t ridden her yet choosing to get acquainted on the ground through grooming, hand walking and being present instead.

This day was the day though. I grabbed her from the icy, muddy paddock and brought her into the barn. Her shaggy fur was brushed, curried and brushed again. I rubbed MTG into the bald spots on her butt. I ran my hands over her ribs wondering when the weight would go on so I could no longer feel them so easily.

The ride had already been played out in my mind a dozen times. She’d stand still to be tacked. We would walk into the indoor and I’d mount while Gem waited patiently. She’d walk off when asked and carry me around the arena. We would trot. We would canter. We would work towards learning to jump.

Ha. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!

The reality hit hard and hit fast. When I went to put the bridle on, she reared and flew backwards down the barn aisle. I had to corner her in her stall to bridle her for months.

She wouldn’t lead and instead I had to carry a dressage whip to keep her from digging in and planting her feet.

Mounting was an exercise in acrobatics as she swung around, dashed forward and jaunted back.

Once mounted she stood still. I thought this was a big win, but Gem would prove me wrong yet again. Nothing I did made that mare move. Clucking, kissing, squeezing, digging in my heels, pony club kicking, using the whip. She stood there, ears back to me and told me where I stood with her. Then, once I was in near tears and ready to get off, she bolted violently forward and galloped around the arena throwing in a small buck here and there.

Nothing about that day went right. I left dejected. I thought about selling her. I cried. What had I bought? What was I going to do?

This ride to begin all other rides made me buck up. I reached out to a local trainer and began lessons. I learned was being a rider and not a passenger was all about. This ride may have killed all my day dreams of that magical heart horse that did everything perfect just because they loved me, but it also built the foundation of hard work and earning it.

Gem never gives me anything just because. I need to earn it every ride, every stride, every time. This first ride set the stage for all the blood, sweat and tears that has come since then. It was a ride I could have walked away from, sold her on and bought a new horse. Instead I dug in and showed Gem I wasn’t going anywhere and that I could be more stubborn than her. It was the best thing that could have happened to us.

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NaBloPoMo Day 2

Having never participated in this before, I’m not sure if I want to just skip the days when I have other content or have two posts in one day. For now I’m going to try the two in one day thing so that I don’t miss any of the prompts. We will see how the month fleshes out.

When was the last time you rode and what did you do?

This is a nice double post because my answer is short and sweet: I went cross country schooling last Friday and fought with my mare the entire time as she apparently had other ideas for the day.

It’s been nearly a week without riding but that’s life. I have been really good at riding twice a week recently, but this last week got away from me. Saturday I gave her off after the nearly 3 hour schooling Friday. Sunday it poured all day. Monday I had a migraine to beat all migraines and went to bed as soon as I got home from work. Tuesday was Halloween. Yesterday I got home after dark from work and have yet to figure out the lighting issue at home. Honestly if we are moving to a place with a lit arena in a month I have no motivation to solve this temporary issue. If the farm falls through then I’ll come up with something.

So that is that. Bring on the next prompt!

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Clover Ledge Blog Hop: NaBloPoMo Day 1

Clover Ledge Farm is hosting this challenge for the month of November and since I’ve had so little to write about lately I figured I’d jump on in. And because it is the day after Halloween, you get a picture of Wyatt!

When and why I started riding.

Wow. Starting off with a bang here. For me this question is easiest to be broken into two separate riding “lives”: my younger years and my return as an adult.

I’m not sure if riding was a conscious decision or not. My aunt and uncle owned a horse farm two hours south of where I lived and my mom would take me there as a little girl. Pictures of a blonde haired, blue eyed miniature version of myself are floating around somewhere.

I loved everything about the farm. The animals, the dirt, the room to explore. My aunt began by giving me pony rides until I began begging to go faster. Faster. Faster. At that point my uncle threw me up in his big western saddle in front of him and we raced around the pasture on his saintly TWH mare.

It was only a matter of time until they added a pony to their herd for me which was later upgraded to my own horse. I adored my time spent there, begged my mom to let me spend more weeks with them and cried when I left. We rode from sun up to sun down, swam in the river and conquered mountain trails. It was a dream of a childhood.

Then the usual happened. I grew up into a teenager and became interested in more local endeavors. High school and then college came and went. I got married. I started medical school. Those were the horseless years.

In my third year of medical school something changed. I was doing a month long stint at the VA hospital and an attending was talking about her new horse. One thing led to another and I found myself invited to ride with her. That was beginning of the end.

The moment my leg swung up I felt like I was back home. I missed the feeling of horseflesh under my seat. The smell of horse sweat in my nostrils. The sense of freedom being on a horse gave me. Like I could fly. Like anything was possible.

The reason I started riding is because it was in my bones to do so. I can come up with no better reason. I never had competition goals. I never dreamed of running my own boarding or training barn. I just knew I felt at home in a barn, on a horse.

The reason I keep riding is the challenge to grow as a person, as a steward of these wonderful animals and as a rider. Even the bad rides make me yearn for me. For a redo. The good rides leave me riding a high for days. It’s an addiction. Its in my blood.